Menikmati Proses

30 07 2008

Sebenarnya yang harus kita nikmati dalam hidup ini adalah proses. Mengapa? Karena yang bernilai dalam hidup ini ternyata adalah proses dan bukan hasil. Hasil itu Allah SWT yang menetapkan. Kita hanya punya dua kewajiban, yaitu menjaga setiap niat dari apapun yang kita lakukan dan selalu berusaha menyempurnakan ikhtiar yang dilakukan, selebihnya terserah Allah SWT.

In fact that must be enjoyed by us in living this was the process. Why? Because that was valuable in living this evidently was the process and not results. The results of Allah that appointed. We only had two obligations, that is maintaining each intention from anything that was done by us and always tried to complete efforts that were carried out, the rest was up to Allah.

Seperti para mujahidin yang berjuang membela bangsa dan agamanya, sebetulnya bukan kemenangan yang terpenting bagi mereka karena menang kalah itu akan selalu digilir kepada siapapun. Tapi yang paling penting baginya adalah bagaimana selama berjuang itu niatnya benar karena Allah dan selama berjuang itu akhlaknya juga tetap terjaga. Tidak akan rugi orang yang mampu berbuat seperti ini sebab ketika dapat mengalahkan lawan berarti dapat pahala, kalaupun terbunuh berarti bisa jadi syuhada.

As the fighting mujahidins defended the nation and his religion, actually not the victory that was most important for them because of winning lost that always will be rotated to whom. But that was most important for him was how while struggling that his intention was true because of Allah and while struggling that his moral also continued to be awakened. Would not the person’s loss that could do like this because when could overcome the significant opponent could the reward, although being killed meant to be able to be the martyr.

Ketika berjualan dalam rangka mencari nafkah untuk keluarga, maka masalah yang terpenting bagi kita bukanlah uang dari jualan itu, karena uang itu ada jalurnya, ada rezekinya dari Allah SWT dan semua pasti mendapatkannya. Karena kalau kita mengukur kesuksesan itu dari untung yang didapat, maka akan gampang sekali bagi Allah SWT untuk memusnahkan untung yang didapat hanya dalam waktu sekejap.

When selling in order to seek a living for the family, then the problem that was most important for us not money from the merchandise, because of the money had his route, there was his fortune from Allah and all must get him. Because if we measured the success from the profit that was gotten, then will be very easy for Allah to destroy the profit that was gotten only in time in an instant.

Dibuat musibah menimpanya, dikenai bencana, hingga akhirnya semua untung yang dicari berpuluh-puluh tahun bisa sirna seketika. Walhasil yang terpenting dari bisnis dan ikhtiar yang dilakukan adalah prosesnya. Misal, bagaimana selama berjualan itu kita selalu menjaga niat agar tidak pernah ada satu miligram pun hak orang lain yang terambil oleh kita, bagaimana ketika berjualan itu kita tampil penuh keramahan dan penuh kemuliaan akhlak, bagaimana ketika sedang bisnis benar-benar dijaga kejujuran kita, tepat waktu, janji-janji kita penuhi.

Made by the disaster fall on him, till finally all the profits that were looked for dozens of years could disappear instantly. The result was that was most important from the business and efforts that were carried out was his process. The example, how while selling that we always maintained the intention of being not one milligram then the person’s other right that was taken by us, how when selling that we appeared was full of the friendliness and was full of the magnificence of the moral, how when was the business was really maintained by our honesty, right on time, promises were kept by us.

Keuntungan saat berproses dalam mencari nafkah adalah dengan menjaga nilai-nilai perilaku kita. Uang bukanlah hal yang harus selalu dipikirkan, karena Allah Mahatahu kebutuhan kita, lebih tahu dari kita sendiri. Kita sama sekali tidak akan terangkat oleh keuntungan yang kita dapatkan, tapi kita akan terangkat oleh proses mulia yang kita jalani. Hal ini perlu dicamkan baik-baik oleh siapa pun bahwa yang termahal dari kita adalah nilai-nilai yang selalu kita jaga dalam proses.

The profit during processed in seeking a living was by maintaining the values of our behaviour. Money not the matter that always must be thought about, because Allah Mahatahu our requirement, more knew from us ourselves. We in no way will be lifted by the profit that was obtained by us, but we will be appointed by the noble process that was undergone by us. This must be observed well by who that that was most expensive from us was the values that always were maintained by us in the process.

Termasuk ketika kuliah bagi para pelajar, kalau kuliah hanya menikmati hasil ataupun hanya ingin gelar, bagaimana kalau meninggal sebelum diwisuda? Apalagi kita tidak tahu kapan meninggal. Karena itu, hal terpenting dari perkuliahan adalah selalu bertanya pada diri, mau apa dengan kuliah ini? Apakah sekadar untuk mencari isi perut? Bukankah Imam Ali ra pernah mengatakan, ”Orang yang pikirannya hanya pada isi perut, maka derajat dia tidak akan jauh beda dengan yang keluar dari perutnya.

Including when going to class for the students, if the lecture only enjoyed results or only wanted the degree, how if dying before diwisuda? Moreover we did not know when dying. Therefore, the most important matter from lectures was always to ask itself, wanted what by going to class this? Only a to look for the contents of the stomach? Not Imam Ali ra had said, the Person that his thoughts only to the contents of the stomach, then the level he will not be far unlike that left his stomach.

” Kalau hanya ingin cari uang, hanya tok uang, maka asal tahu saja penjahat juga pikirannya hanya uang. Bagi kita kuliah adalah suatu ikhtiar agar nilai kemanfaatan hidup kita meningkat. Kita menuntut ilmu supaya tambah luas ilmu hingga akhirnya hidup kita bisa lebih meningkat manfaatnya. Ikhtiar dalam meningkatkan kemampuan salah satu tujuannya adalah agar dapat memberi manfaat bagi orang lain. Kita cari nafkah sebanyak mungkin supaya bisa menyejahterakan orang lain.

If only wanted to look for money, only tok money, then the origin knew the criminal also his thoughts of only money. For us the lecture was an effort so that the value of our life of the benefit increases. We pursued knowledge to wider of knowledge through to finally our life could more increase by his benefit. Efforts in increasing the capacity of one of his aims of being in order to be able to give the benefit for the other person. Looked for us the livelihood totaling possibly to be able to make the other person more prosperous.

Dalam mencari rezeki ada dua perkara yang perlu selalu kita jaga, ketika sedang mencari kita sangat jaga nilai-nilainya, dan ketika mendapatkannya kita distribusikan sebanyak-banyaknya. Inilah yang terpenting. Dalam melakukan hal apapun, bertanyalah selalu, untuk apa kita melakukan semua itu. Saat melamar seseorang, kita harus siap menerima kenyataan bahwa yang dilamar itu belum tentu jodoh kita. Mungkin kita sudah datang ke calon mertua, sudah bicara baik-baik, sudah menentukan tanggal, tiba-tiba menjelang pernikahan ternyata ia mengundurkan diri atau akan menikah dengan yang lain.

In seeking a living had two cases that always must be maintained by us, when looking for us really guarded thought-he thought, and when getting him was distributed by us as much as possible. This that was most important. In doing the matter anything, asked always, why we carried out all that. When proposing to someone, we must be ready to accept the reality that that was applied for that not necessarily our partner. Possibly we have come to the prospective parent-in-law, to have spoken well, has determined the date, suddenly gazed at the marriage evidently he withdrew or will marry that was other.

Sakit hati adalah sesuatu yang wajar dan manusiawi, tapi ingat bahwa kita tidak pernah rugi kalau niatnya dan caranya sudah benar. Mungkin Allah SWT telah menyiapkan calon lain yang lebih cocok bagi kita. Mungkin pula kita sudah daftar ibadah haji, sudah dipotret, sudah manasik, dan sudah siap untuk berangkat, tiba-tiba ada sesuatu hal yang membatalkan kepergian kita, seperti yang terjadi kemarin. Apakah ini suatu kerugian?

Be offended was something that was natural and humane, but remembered that we had not been unfortunate if his intention and his method have been true. Possibly Allah prepared the other candidate who was more appropriate for us. Possibly also we already the list of the pilgrim’s religious duties, has been photographed, already the guide, and has been ready to depart, suddenly had a matter that cancelled our trip, like that happened yesterday. That is you are loss?


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